Pam Valentine finds brother

Pam Valentine encourages people to join their local family history group to uncover hidden gems in their genealogical record, as she did, uncovering a brother, Harry.

Pam Valentine encourages people to join their local family history group to uncover hidden gems in their genealogical record, as she did, uncovering a brother, Harry.

Pam Valentine's brother Harry

Pam Valentine's brother Harry

FROM her father's war service records, Pam Valentine unravelled a family mystery that led her from western Sydney to Westminster.

Buried in the documents, the 76-year-old Liverpool resident and outgoing secretary of the Holroyd Family History Group found a reference to her father's son, Harry. Until that point, Ms Valentine had no idea she had a brother.

"I was kind of excited, and a bit shocked and amazed," Ms Valentine said.

"That's the thing about family history, you never know what you're going to find. I wouldn't have found all of this just by going to Ancestry, you have to look at the primary documents."

After her initial discovery, Ms Valentine searched the archives for more references to the half brother she never knew, and in 2011, she travelled to London, where he died at 47 in 1958, to lay a makeshift cross and a red poinsettia flower on his unmarked grave.

"It was lovely to be close to him and to recognise him . . . by that time, I'd more or less traced most of his life.

"Maybe I was the only visitor that he'd had. The word I would use is poignant."

Ms Valentine also visited the Gloucester Hotel next to Victoria Station, where Harry worked as a waiter.

But her journey didn't end there. Ms Valentine found another lead. Harry — who served on the Queen Elizabeth as a hospital attendant during World War II and had travelled to New York — may have married an American named Dorothy. "If we can find a wife or children that would be great."

To mark National History Month in August, the Holroyd Family History Group, which meets on the second and third Monday each month, will hold an open day on August 9 at Merrylands Library from 10am to 3.30pm.

■ Details: hfhginc2@hotmail.com.

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